Welcome to Escape Intervention
Are you affected by any of these:
This is when someone we care about either dies or leaves our life and it hurts us.
We may feel confused about our feelings as we often feel very angry, frustrated,
upset, afraid, hurt or rejected. It is usually helpful to talk about our feelings
as we work through our painful experiences and come to terms with our loss.
This is where people in our families are violent towards us or each other, and it
often leaves us feeling helpless and hopeless. It is often difficult to tell our
friends or other family members about this, as it often feels like we are betraying
those we love. It is important to talk about domestic violence and how it has affected
us, as we often feel very angry and hurt, and we can be helped.
All families are different and are affected by many things, such as the death of
someone, financial problems, domestic violence, drug or alcohol problems, or many
other things. Some family problems cause us to feel upset and distressed, and we
often feel unable to tell others e.g. teachers, friends, because we don’t think
they will understand. It is important to get help so we can feel happier.
People using substances, such as illegal drugs, prescribed drugs or alcohol, can
affect how they behave towards us and this may hurt us. We may feel confused or
frightened by the unpredictable behaviour of those around us, or we may use substances
ourselves to help with feelings of anger or frustration. By talking to someone they
can help you to make sense of what is happening to you and how to cope with your
If you or a family member is gambling, this could cause lots of problems as money
is spent on gambling instead of on things that are needed for the family. Many people
use gambling as a way of coping or helping with their feelings, as they get a ‘buzz’
out of playing various games or betting. You may be left feeling quite helpless
as you lose money or others around you lose money, which causes your family to suffer
financially. You can change this behaviour or cope with family members gambling,
by talking about it with someone you can trust.
Victim of abuse:
When using the word abuse, this means either physical, emotional or sexual abuse,
which are all serious forms of being hurt. Some forms of abuse are very well hidden
and people find it difficult to speak about it as they are often scared or worried
about what will happen. It is ok to talk about abuse and find help to make you feel
less afraid and happier.
We can feel very angry for a lot of reasons, but it is mainly because we feel hurt
and upset by something or someone. It is good to ask for help to manage your anger
as you may be left with feeling bad about yourself each time you have an angry reaction,
and this will affect your confidence and self-esteem.
When people divorce or separate we can feel very hurt, upset, angry, lonely and
abandoned. Our feelings are very similar to when someone dies as we may think we
will never see them again, particularly if it is our mother or father who has left.
Some people feel very confused as they may think the person who has left does not
love them anymore, so it is important to find someone to talk to about this painful
We're here to help!